Hindu-Jewish Wedding Weekend

Pete and I were able to attend a wedding that isn't your every day garden variety wedding- this was a Hindu-Jewish wedding weekend. I really wanted to be able to come back and write all about it and tell you so much about everything I saw, but I didn't truly follow everything I saw.

 Our first night there I got henna.

can't touch anything for 2 hours

flower on the left hand a peacock on the right

got some bindi

what it looks like when dry

The Hindu ceremony was the next morning--very early. Many women wore saris or salwar and men kurta. I didn't wear Indian clothes, but Pete looked handsome in his.

he didn't wear the Indian pants but is rocking the top

As an American chick just sort of watching the ceremony it seemed very laid back, come and go as you wish, go out and have a snack and come back in, chat a bit to friends and relatives while the bride and groom are on the altar, some people took phone calls, and it appeared in this case that even the priest was ad-libbing some- suddenly there was a call to find a baby- and this was not entirely expected by anyone involved, other than the priest. Finally a baby was found and the bride held it on her lap. Games were also played by the bride and groom-- see who can get the coconut and who can find the ring in the turmeric water. It was an awesome experience and I am glad we were able to be there.

The next day was the Jewish part of the wedding. It took place outside under a Chuppah, it was started off by the blowing of the Shofar made by an animal's horn. I must admit that I was super excited by this-probably way more than was warranted. Then we sang the bride down the aisle. It was a short ceremony that was beautiful and meaningful and of course ended by the breaking of glass and shouting Mazel Tov. Prior to the wedding Pete was able to participate in the signing of the ketubah. I really enjoyed the Hora and seeing the bride and groom thrust into the air. Pete got to give a toast and while I think he tried to freak/kill the bride first by claiming to have no knowledge of having to give a speech and asking if it was really such a big deal, he did a great job!

It was so touching and meaningful to see so many people happy, blessed, proud, and excited to be joining these two faiths and traditions. More people should follow the lead of our wonderful friends.  Congratulations.